tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post111821516072635441..comments2024-03-20T15:50:48.991+05:30Comments on Compulsive Confessions: A life update and stuff I WOULDN'T do, even if you made me 'Queen For The Day'eMhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12716202062654957842noreply@blogger.comBlogger40125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-7534820904685940662007-10-03T10:51:00.000+05:302007-10-03T10:51:00.000+05:30BESTEST POST Ever!!!hahahaaa. i just died laughing...BESTEST POST Ever!!!<BR/>hahahaaa. i just died laughing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118747225908312562005-06-14T16:37:00.000+05:302005-06-14T16:37:00.000+05:30laughed my guts out reading this one .. though som...laughed my guts out reading this one .. though somewhat marred by the clown's comments ... <BR/>unfortunate that I didn't find this blog earlier ..Bonatellishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08111853561300495031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118424821430193412005-06-10T23:03:00.000+05:302005-06-10T23:03:00.000+05:30You want me to say it? *sigh* Okay, fine I'll say ...You want me to say it? *sigh* Okay, fine I'll say it.<BR/>Ano name Moose, please go away. Please. Don't bother leaving any more comments defending yourself, I really don't care about your viewpoint, I thought perhaps I did, but I don't since you have lived up to my worst expectations. And I totally hate you for making me do this, because I NEVER stop commenters. Okay, now, please go. Quietly.eMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12716202062654957842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118421577789333212005-06-10T22:09:00.000+05:302005-06-10T22:09:00.000+05:30NB: Ms. eM - all you have to say is "Dont post her...NB: Ms. eM - all you have to say is "Dont post here", and I'll stop.<BR/><BR/>... I'm doing this only because I value my character as much as a woman would hers ...<BR/><BR/><I>also.. may i dig your grave for you?</I><BR/>Maybe in another sixty years, young'un. But that doesn't mean I will lay in it :)<BR/><BR/><I>*sweet smile*</I><BR/>*pats grafxgurl on the head*<BR/><BR/><I>set up fake identities</I><BR/>And you are the Real Thing? "Samit Das" tells me who you are?<BR/>And I didn't set this ID up to post here. I created this ID over two weeks ago to write my two blogs.<BR/><BR/><I>of course, it could also be a phrase, if slightly badly spelt</I><BR/>I wouldn't go through so much trouble to parse my ID. There are bigger issues at hand.<BR/>Nor would I think too much before setting one up. It is spelt EXACTLY like I intended it to.<BR/><BR/><I>carry on the hatespeech</I><BR/>I have been called a "shithead", a "creep", an instigator of rape, a "rapist", a 21 year old imp made references to my sphincter and you called me a "cow".<BR/>I've been threatened to be beaten up with a plaster cast, and the aforementioned 21 year old offered to dig my grave.<BR/>And then you made fun of my spelling and my mental abilities.<BR/>If you'll scroll up and read, I have never gotten personal with anyone. The one time I made an unkind remark about Ms. eM's grammar, I apologized. (Then again, it wasn't a jab, it was more an expression of amusement at how everything works out in the grand scheme of things).<BR/>Hatespeech? Yes. From me? No. I dont hate. That I'll leave for those who are good at it.<BR/>If I had wanted to indulge in hatespeech, I'd have said to you, "Stay to the point, you gender-confused imbecile." <BR/>(Because the way you argue reminds me of drag queens on Jerry Springer. I can almost see that wave of the hand and the swish of hips as you say "... A Noname Moose? please".) But, then again, maybe that wouldn't be "hatespeech". "Colorful inference", maybe, but not "hatespeech".<BR/>And, son, before you can be a Jedi, you will have to learn to be a man first.<BR/>I did get personal this time. Everyone is allowed their one little luxury. And then again, it was warranted.<BR/><BR/><I>as if you have fantasies of wearing your underwear over your trousers and make like superman</I><BR/>Where I come from, doing what I would is called common decency. Even normal humans would do that.<BR/>And the point I was trying to make there was that I would not sit back and say "She deserves it.".<BR/>AGAIN - the argument is not about me or my character - the argument is about what that email means.<BR/><BR/><I>For a chap who says he is non-judgemental, you seem pass judgements at will</I><BR/>Where did I say I was non-judgemental? I said, "I will not judge you anymore than I would a man".<BR/>And as far as VHP/Bajrang Dal/radical-mullahs go, you only have to read the news.<BR/><BR/><I>why go into the mumbo jumbo of reading between lines and the fact that he wants to build relationships etc</I><BR/>Because anything else only conforms to the jump-to-conclusions, women-who-dress-vulgar-deserve-rape non-logic.<BR/>Or, do you believe that women should be measured differently than we do men? If so, why?<BR/>And, like I have said, I do not condone rape. Not for ANY reason. And Ma'm, thanks for not getting personal and for staying (mostly) to the point.<BR/><BR/><I>we have people who come up with fantastic logic to put down and discourage people like eM.</I><BR/>Logic, Ma'm, is never "fantastic". Logic by definition is explainable. Hysteria, on the other hand, is fantastic.<BR/>And if you meant to say MY logic is "fantastic", I'll ask you how. I only drew valid inferences from (all of) what was presented.<BR/>And I did not discourage anyone from doing anything. I only SUGGESTED that maybe she should stop and think.<BR/>And then everyone decided I was an threat to humanity, started calling me names, and this degenerated into what this has become.<BR/><BR/><I>And then you have the GALL to complain about a witchunt!!!!!</I><BR/>Ah, but it is. Maybe you dont see it because of your (justified) bias, but it is.<BR/>I am NOT talking about your experiences in the bus/train/office/public. I am talking about THIS ONE email.<BR/>That you choose to call anything other than crying rape, "mumbo jumbo", proves it. If you read that email<BR/>carefully, in its entirety, untainted by the passion of this discussion, you will see that the guy is trying to be sympathetic, and offering to "help".<BR/>Maybe STUPIDLY so, but not lustfully or maliciously. What happens in buses/trains/offices/public/elsewhere/in-other-email is a whole other discussion.<BR/>If Ms. eM had said, "He said that I sleep around without knowing everything there is to know about me.", I'd have seen the point, because he does.<BR/>But to say, "He wants to have sex with me", just doesn't make sense. And it makes even less sense to say he's out for rape or sexual harrassment.<BR/>Is every unsolicited advance the first step to rape? Are men not allowed to make the first move?సतीshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12483207267302095490noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118388810806822052005-06-10T13:03:00.000+05:302005-06-10T13:03:00.000+05:30of course, it could also be a phrase, if slightly ...of course, it could also be a phrase, if slightly badly spelt.<BR/><BR/>A No-name Moos: The Pent-Up Angst of a Nameless Cow.shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18107058036150179873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118388593518279142005-06-10T12:59:00.000+05:302005-06-10T12:59:00.000+05:30Finally..FINALLY...you listen to my sage advice an...Finally..FINALLY...you listen to my sage advice and disable the anonymous comment thingie. Next step, young padawan, is when you discover the 'Delete Comment' thing. Just the thought of how little effort it takes you to remove these mountains of hatespeech (three clicks, I think) will bring you many an evil smile in the future.<BR/>Also, people, if youre going to set up fake identities to carry on the hatespeech, pick a half-decent name.... A Noname Moose? Please.shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18107058036150179873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118383365600577812005-06-10T11:32:00.000+05:302005-06-10T11:32:00.000+05:30Nice post. The dude did leave himself wide open fo...Nice post. The dude did leave himself wide open for ridicule after that email. I did enjoy the war of words that followed too.<BR/><BR/>Moose, I suggest you take a while and read what you wrote. Your lines " I dont care if you (not to suggest that you would) dance on bar tables in underwear in an alcohol induced haze. I really don't. I'm not a mullah. I'm not the VHP. I'm not Bajrang Dal. But if someone were wanting to take advantage of you in that state - believe me or not - I WILL step in to help (you, not the perpetrator)." sounds incredibly wierd, as if you have fantasies of wearing your underwear over your trousers and make like superman. For a chap who says he is non-judgemental, you seem pass judgements at will. tsk tsk.R.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13751281571821760855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118378029953957682005-06-10T10:03:00.000+05:302005-06-10T10:03:00.000+05:30hey uncle Moose..im glad i amoose you...lol..now w...hey uncle Moose..<BR/>im glad i amoose you...lol..<BR/>now will you please get your head out of your spincter.. your voice is starting to echo a bit too much...<BR/><BR/>also.. may i dig your grave for you?<BR/><BR/>*sweet smile*That Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07122621924976348479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118344167258884142005-06-10T00:39:00.000+05:302005-06-10T00:39:00.000+05:30updates on the comments every hour on the hourMorn...<I>updates on the comments every hour on the hour</I><BR/>Mornings and evenings, and the occasional break I take from work. Not "every hour".<BR/><BR/><I>I never said this emailer was out for rape or whatever.</I><BR/>You didn't call him a rapist? Didn't you say people like him (and me) instigate it?<BR/><BR/><I>patriachal attitude</I><BR/>No. Just common sense.<BR/><BR/><I>Yup, devout Hindu all right ! You obviously didn't get the ';)' at the end of that statement !</I><BR/>That I'm Hindu doesn't mean I am going to subjugate my manhood. If you say you're going to beat me up, I'm going to say I'm going to beat you up. Period. And, if you think Hinduism is synonymous with non-violence, you're mistaken. You've just been misled by Gandhi and his ilk.<BR/>I DID see the ';)' - and it was anything BUT benign. No threat of violence is ever. And especially not in this situation, where emotions obvioulsy run deep. (Would you call me a "creep" if you didn't mean it?)<BR/><BR/><I>it seems to me that you would be the first to condem the slightest infraction of what you hold to be high virtue</I><BR/>It only <B>seems</B> that way to you maybe beacause you are "open minded"? And then, I never said I worship them for their "virtue". Did I? I read this <A HREF="http://www.boloji.com/hinduism/panchkanya/pk01.htm" REL="nofollow">article</A> (all 27 pages) a couple of months ago, about the Panchakanyas, and their "virtue". Most of that article made sense to me. I see the point in those women deciding to exercise their judgement as they see fit. I have no problem with women wearing what they want to wear. I have no problem with women drinking or smoking. I have no problem with women sleeping with whoever they please to. I have no more problem than I would have with men doing the same things. That is their life and their decisions, not mine. I do have a problem with a hundred people getting together to put a one person (man or woman) down, in this case, for what he probably meant to be empathy. I DO have a problem with unjustified unkindness. (And why? Because his grammar was wrong? Because he didn't quote Shakespeare?)<BR/><BR/><I>The implied 'proposition' was so apparent</I><BR/>Like I said in an earlier comment, read his email in its <B>ENTIRETY</B>. He may have said that she wasn't saying "no" enough... but that was his perception - flawed maybe - but just that perception. His intentions, though, he made pretty clear later in that email.<BR/><BR/><I>or even try to read in between the lines</I><BR/>Exactly my point. But then, you dont even need to here. He states pretty clearly what he seeks.<BR/><BR/><I>when one sees what is obvious</I><BR/>Heh. But you see, you're CHOOSING to see a certain thing. Then again, it could just be the world you live in, or the company you keep.<BR/><BR/><I>And you apparently really 'know' the guy who wrote that email.</I><BR/>No. And if you're insinuating that I'm him, no. I haven't read this girl's blog before this post.<BR/><BR/>AGAIN, what I'm bothered about here is this preemptive witch-hunt.... without caring really for what was really said. There seems to be no logic to what's happening here. Can you say mass hysteria?<BR/><BR/>Like this girl said - this argument is going to be no more than just that - argument.<BR/>And, Ms. eM, though it may seem to you like I'd care - I dont care if you (not to suggest that you would) dance on bar tables in underwear in an alcohol induced haze. I really don't. I'm not a mullah. I'm not the VHP. I'm not Bajrang Dal. But if someone were wanting to take advantage of you in that state - believe me or not - I <B>WILL</B> step in to help (you, not the perpetrator). But, if you, of your own sane and free will decided to copulate with some random stranger, I'd leave it to you and your judgement (maybe offer you advice if you were a friend). And no, I wouldn't judge you for that. Not any more than I'd judge a man. So, you (and the rest of your friends), please dont slander my character anymore.<BR/><BR/>'Nuff said. Fare ye well, Ms. eM (and everyone else). Peace.సतीshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12483207267302095490noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118331697083368042005-06-09T21:11:00.000+05:302005-06-09T21:11:00.000+05:30And - please refrain from threatening physical vio...<I>And - please refrain from threatening physical violence. Because if you desire it, I'm willing to take you up on it.</I><BR/><BR/>ROTFLMAO ! That was priceless dude. Yup, devout Hindu all right ! You obviously didn't get the ';)' at the end of that statement !<BR/><BR/>The problem lies in using the fact that you worship female deities as a point against your attitude. Its the same attitude that makes people look upon the sexual harassment of today's world, and say, yeah she deserved it. From the way you talk about the women around you, it seems to me that you would be the first to condem the slightest infraction of what you hold to be high virtue. That was what at the heart of this whole debate. <BR/><BR/>All of us can read in between the lines as well as you can. The implied 'proposition' was so apparent, that most of us didn't even take a second glance, or even try to read in between the lines. One does not, when one sees what is obvious. But I guess it takes one to know one. And you apparently really 'know' the guy who wrote that email.Vigneshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13592687140158303231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118329795863175842005-06-09T20:39:00.000+05:302005-06-09T20:39:00.000+05:30Dude, A noname whatever. In my defense, (though wh...Dude, A noname whatever. In my defense, (though why I should be defending myself from some stranger who has evidently been checking updates on the comments every hour on the hour is beyond me). I never said this emailer was out for rape or whatever. What I was objecting to was your patriachal attitude, which you evidently cannot see. Whatever. Have a nice life, it's too hot and I don't care enough to argue with you.eMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12716202062654957842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118323979147277672005-06-09T19:02:00.000+05:302005-06-09T19:02:00.000+05:30GettingThere said...To Anon: Adding to what FinGee...<I><BR/>GettingThere said...<BR/>To Anon: Adding to what FinGeek said - Quote: Ask all your women friends how they would feel .... End Quote. I suggest you also ask your sister how she would feel. Granted you have the right to express your opinion, but NOT on someone else's blog if they don't want you to.<BR/></I><BR/><BR/>1. My sister - she has been the object of unwanted advances. She didn't cry rape though. Neither did she call the guy a "loser". She <B>politely</B> declined. And I'm proud of her.<BR/>2. I have as much right to express anything as you do. I mean, it just makes sense - doesn't it? How are you any different that I am?<BR/>3. Like I said, I will stop posting here. All she has to do is say so.<BR/><BR/>PS: Sorry for the multiple posts. I write in reaction. And I hadn't read all comments. I took them as they came.సतीshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12483207267302095490noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118322515243191052005-06-09T18:38:00.000+05:302005-06-09T18:38:00.000+05:30And in the interest of keeping this in perspective...And in the interest of keeping this in perspective and balanced:<BR/><I><BR/>ii) Anon: How does praying to female deities make you open minded about women? Open minded is accepting that a woman has a right to say no. Watch "accused", brother.<BR/></I><BR/>It doesn't make me "open minded" about anything. Not what you call "open minded" anyways. It does make me respect them, though. You have to be Hindu, and devoutly so to understand it. I have never in my life ogled a girl, whistled at a girl or said "क्या चीज़ है रे!!". I've never derided women, even only in the company of close male friends. So there.<BR/><BR/>And - I dont learn my life lessons from movies. So I wont watch whatever you want me to watch.<BR/><BR/><I><BR/>iii) Where and when exactly did you last see you life? <BR/></I><BR/>I see it everyday. Which is why I have learned to be patient and read between the lines. Which is why I have realized that every human being is good at the core. That all you have to do is give someone a chance.<BR/><BR/>Those of you looking up dictionaries - there are multiple meanings listed.<BR/><BR/><BR/>That said, the argument here never was about my character or about my respect for women. It was about what the guy intended to say. And what he intended to say is pretty obvious, to me atleast, from what he said - <B>"build a relationship"</B>. I can understand this girl's indignation. But like I said before, I only sought to point out what might have gone unnoticed in this flow of emotion.సतीshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12483207267302095490noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118321560973500642005-06-09T18:22:00.000+05:302005-06-09T18:22:00.000+05:30Hmmm.You know, I thought I'd keep my mouth shut. ...Hmmm.<BR/>You know, I thought I'd keep my mouth shut. But after being called a "creep", and whatever else not, I think I have to say what I need to say.<BR/><BR/>You quoted the guy. Here's what you skipped over:<BR/><I>But the problem is i live in Bombay and u in delhi but we can <B>build a relationship</B> nevertheless.</I><BR/><BR/>And, people, like I said, before you get personal, step back and think.<BR/><BR/>Vignesh - what exactly is wrong with using female deities in an argument? I just meant to say that I see women in a different light because I do. Eh, I dont think you'd understand though. And - please refrain from threatening physical violence. Because if you desire it, I'm willing to take you up on it.<BR/><BR/>Grafxgrl - I have nothing to say to you. You obviously have a few years of growing up to do. :) That wasn't meant as offense. You really do amuse me the way kids do.సतीshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12483207267302095490noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118313900360455402005-06-09T16:15:00.000+05:302005-06-09T16:15:00.000+05:30oh my god! WHAT a loser! em, i sympathise with you...oh my god! WHAT a loser! em, i sympathise with you completely. in fact, i had a whole series of bad experiences about a year ago. i could send you some really, really funny emails along these lines.Vishnupriyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14923397597408768084noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118312524249053562005-06-09T15:52:00.000+05:302005-06-09T15:52:00.000+05:30whoa!a comments section like this,vociferous suppo...whoa!<BR/>a comments section like this,<BR/>vociferous support, <BR/>and a computer game to boot.<BR/><BR/>maekyaji keep it upp.https://www.blogger.com/profile/18121509578040313400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118305540192582842005-06-09T13:55:00.000+05:302005-06-09T13:55:00.000+05:30This is great fun! Thank you guys :) I don't know ...This is great fun! Thank you guys :) I don't know whether any of you noticed, but anonymous comments have now been disabled . *sigh* It's the end of an era I tell you!!!<BR/>But, other stuff, I went to work, attempted to go again today and was ordered to stay home. So I suppose new Sims records will be broken. <BR/>I tried not to get too angry, but attitudes like these astound me. I've HEARD about them sure, but I never thought I'd meet them face-to-face. (Or blog-to-blog). <BR/>But again, thanks to the rest of you for making me aware that there are nice people to balance out the crazies. (Jay, you fall in the "nice people", okay? Don't get mad!)eMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12716202062654957842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118302484449323392005-06-09T13:04:00.000+05:302005-06-09T13:04:00.000+05:30Wow ! I take off for a day, and see what I've miss...Wow ! I take off for a day, and see what I've missed...<BR/><BR/>As someone said, being a celebrity (in our little blog world) has its downsides. People assume they know you, when they don't. Creeps like that, need to be told off real quick.<BR/><BR/>Creeps like Anon over here, who much to my disbelief, actually used female deities in his argument, I don't know what to do with. They are all over the place, crawling through the woodwork. I really am at a loss for words here...<BR/><BR/>Take care of that foot. And hold onto the plaster cast. It might come in handy one of these days, with some anonymous commentors ;)Vigneshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13592687140158303231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118295405675582652005-06-09T11:06:00.000+05:302005-06-09T11:06:00.000+05:30eMIf it does you good to bust a gut yelling at the...eM<BR/><BR/>If it does you good to bust a gut yelling at the anonymous comments guy (who "prays to female dieties [sic]", yet!), go ahead and yell.<BR/><BR/>On balance, though, it might be healthier to laugh at the creeps like you did with your original correspondent.<BR/><BR/>Get well soon. Remember, 'hopping mad' is bad for a broken foot.<BR/><BR/>J.A.P.J. Alfred Prufrockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16446127543417759542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118294152714232012005-06-09T10:45:00.000+05:302005-06-09T10:45:00.000+05:30Ooooooh, goodie, a cyber war! :)I think people who...Ooooooh, goodie, a cyber war! :)<BR/><BR/>I think people who are accusing eM of being <I>whatever</I> should remember:<BR/><BR/>o that she had the decency of not revealing the guy's name. She could have, you know.<BR/><BR/>o that it is her blog, and if you don't like what she writes, or don't agree with it, go to www.gnu.org.<BR/><BR/>o that in this post, she has also mentioned breaking her sims 2 record (I guess it is some sort of a game), and other things too. Then why pick up one portion and judge her based on that?<BR/><BR/>And whoever thinks that eM and women like her are the reasons this country is going to dogs, I have the following set of questions for you:<BR/><BR/>i) How is being open about sexuality a worse crime than, say, siphoning off crores of Rs. intended for creating roads? When you drive to your office, or take a bus, and it takes you 45 minutes for a 2 km ride, eM is not the reason for that. Some corrupt official is.<BR/><BR/>ii) Anon: How does praying to female deities make you open minded about women? Open minded is accepting that a woman has a right to say no. Watch "accused", brother.<BR/><BR/>iii) Where and when exactly did you last see you life? <BR/><BR/>Angry young male.Anuraghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15081668599890491146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118290885279588432005-06-09T09:51:00.000+05:302005-06-09T09:51:00.000+05:30Anon - DUDE!! Get a life!! yeah!! On someone ELSE"...Anon - DUDE!! Get a life!! yeah!! On someone ELSE"S BLOG please?!!<BR/><BR/>oh and BTW.... theres NO use denying the fact that you DO have the WANNABE "OOH I FANTASISE" RAPIST" syndrome and sickle cells flowing VERY generously through your poisoned blood....for the pure and simple reason being that you MENTIONED the possibility of Sex....<BR/><BR/>HELLO!!<BR/><BR/>for fuck's sake....(pun intended)<BR/>*giggle*That Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07122621924976348479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118285756401274422005-06-09T08:25:00.000+05:302005-06-09T08:25:00.000+05:30"Why are all the crazy people in the world drawn t..."Why are all the crazy people in the world drawn to this site?"<BR/><BR/>Hey!!!Jayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16299949444657013533noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118285182119590612005-06-09T08:16:00.000+05:302005-06-09T08:16:00.000+05:30To Anon: Adding to what FinGeek said - Quote: Ask ...To Anon: Adding to what FinGeek said - Quote: Ask all your women friends how they would feel .... End Quote. I suggest you also ask your sister how she would feel. Granted you have the right to express your opinion, but NOT on someone else's blog if they don't want you to.<BR/><BR/>To anyone who might still be thinking that eM is mistaken that the author of the email propositioned sex : A definition of the word "proposition" on www.dictionary.com - An offer of a private bargain, especially a request for sexual relations. And we women have a pretty good intuition about these things - I would say eM is not mistaken.<BR/><BR/>eM : I totally agree with you. (...YOU are the reason women in this country cannot express themselves freely,....) I am one of those women who have been the target of this kind of mentality and who are disgusted with this attitude. Enough already!Cee Kayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04337348099202456358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118270856192242422005-06-09T04:17:00.000+05:302005-06-09T04:17:00.000+05:30Fair enough. "Propositioning" is definitely sexual...Fair enough. "Propositioning" is definitely sexual in nature. And in any case, he creeped you out, so you have every right. <BR/>To anon: Ask all your women friends how they would feel about getting a mail of this nature. However sympathetic and stupidly kind it may sound to you, it is not innocuous. Behavior that has sexual undertones and makes someone uncomfortable is sexual harassment.Heh Hehhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00221367276532123230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-1118255635824181002005-06-09T00:03:00.000+05:302005-06-09T00:03:00.000+05:30Okay since NO ONE sees it, let me reproduce: So, ...Okay since NO ONE sees it, let me reproduce: <I> So, what if i proposition u now? I am sure u wont say no.</I><BR/>If "proposition" means lets-fall-in-love-and-have-two-babies, then my sincerest apologies. From my limited experience, it means only "lets-get-some"eMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12716202062654957842noreply@blogger.com