tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post2798025424445056098..comments2024-03-20T15:50:48.991+05:30Comments on Compulsive Confessions: Moving oneMhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12716202062654957842noreply@blogger.comBlogger48125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-51727907117051895582009-05-11T20:49:00.000+05:302009-05-11T20:49:00.000+05:30Hi EM, Long time reader, first time commenter :p. ...Hi EM, Long time reader, first time commenter :p. I LOVE what you write, especially loved this post! Now that I have come out of the (ahmm)closet, will comment oftenReshmahttp://www.reshmachitre.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-63145979075336268062009-05-07T15:10:00.000+05:302009-05-07T15:10:00.000+05:30Whenever I read lines on relationships and marriag...Whenever I read lines on relationships and marriages there is this one line by Scott Peck the modern love philosopher that keeps popping up in my head. He is kown to have once said that "True love is when you hate your spouse/partner and still you pretend to love him/her" ... "its at this moment that true love erupts" in short the key is to be "adjusting in realtionships" either the law makes you do that or the culture that makes divorces bad. anyways .. interesting postskullzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15787804624822370723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-58051615365223459842009-05-03T20:03:00.000+05:302009-05-03T20:03:00.000+05:30It's my first visit to your blog, loved the post.
...It's my first visit to your blog, loved the post.<br /><br />Will be a regular now :)Mayankhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08173576334914055347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-86709471412439160932009-04-19T16:41:00.000+05:302009-04-19T16:41:00.000+05:30It may happen Whitelighter...
Nice post !
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...It may happen Whitelighter...<br /><br />Nice post !<br /><br />SidFx<br />http://www.apnahomepage.in<br />Making Indian Weblife a comfortable journey...Sidharthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11274889120528846643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-45525857693219737642009-04-16T06:52:00.000+05:302009-04-16T06:52:00.000+05:30keep building the columns on here, they support br...keep building the columns on here, they support brilliance.<br /><br />I agree with whatever the chinese guy said.Vaudevillianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17865806604577925344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-78944428156050890172009-04-14T15:47:00.000+05:302009-04-14T15:47:00.000+05:30Agree with you on 'test run' part
glad to know tha...Agree with you on 'test run' part<br />glad to know that atleast someone still considers marriage sacred and believes that live-in will eventually lead to it<br />mos ppl I know walk into a live-in purely for convenience<br />nice blog :)Goddess of Nonsensehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17261476718141691235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-24995403237468199422009-04-14T13:27:00.000+05:302009-04-14T13:27:00.000+05:30A simple question - why does your about me, still ...A simple question - why does your about me, still have you as single? Or you don't want to commit it yet ?Mallikarjunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18007731732929107151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-56467979848158228422009-04-14T11:03:00.000+05:302009-04-14T11:03:00.000+05:30read ur blog.........must say its very nicely expl...read ur blog.........must say its very nicely explained......and yes best wishes for your future endeavours :))Rashmihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04878551512460928721noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-50294319872241946532009-04-12T19:39:00.000+05:302009-04-12T19:39:00.000+05:30Who said you need to pass the bar to draft law. An...Who said you need to pass the bar to draft law. Answer the call of the penal code. (I had to say something with 'pen' in it as the word verification said Pensis :D)Renovatiohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08287413128345582022noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-4968432553932148532009-04-11T05:00:00.000+05:302009-04-11T05:00:00.000+05:30its my first time here.. nice post....an interesti...its my first time here.. nice post....<BR/>an interesting take on the live in relationships... <BR/>p.s. all the best wit watever move u plannin in ur professional life.. :)Random Guyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10300920768232142049noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-48857260549626255312009-04-11T01:15:00.000+05:302009-04-11T01:15:00.000+05:30well liked ur blog very much.this is bharat from i...well liked ur blog very much.<BR/>this is bharat from iit kanpur and although i'm just 20 years old i can understand this as ive just witnessed a breakup...<BR/>well ive come to a conclusion that u should first test run your relationship and dont involve yourself too much initially...cause it may hurst later on..<BR/>well here s my blog,new to blogging so dont expect my language to be like that of salman rushdie www.bharatishere.blogspot.comaahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12065505244240394978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-82172939566978329492009-04-10T14:39:00.000+05:302009-04-10T14:39:00.000+05:301. Whose JC ?2. My thought on moving on in relatio...1. Whose JC ?<BR/><BR/>2. My thought on moving on in relationships / marriages - <BR/><BR/>Ever noticed the way a couple monevoures in a relationship? - Before the marriage its like "Public displays of affection" rock - A little after marriage they still hold hands - 2 years down the line - well "uncle" walk aage-aage and aunty trail peeche-peeche - or the vice-versa depending upon who got bored first!<BR/><BR/>I am not advocating being promiscuous (that is too strong a word - maybe fickle is the right one) - But the fact is meenakshi - people get bored - we all do - So what is so wrong with moving on - finding things / people we again want to connect with?<BR/><BR/>Read the following - <BR/><BR/>"Nothing goes wrong when<BR/>spring ends every year,<BR/>a predictable season begins,<BR/>but when love fades<BR/>you run aground suddenly,<BR/>there is no joy nor fear;<BR/>the plane stops mid-air<BR/>as if the skies were folded<BR/>and put in a pocket, as if<BR/>the tables suddenly were turned.<BR/>I am not guilty I touched him,<BR/>I loved him and got bored;<BR/>there is no lesson to be learned"My Trading Chroniclehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07215470160107889750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-16719882385250867342009-04-10T08:44:00.000+05:302009-04-10T08:44:00.000+05:30Moving in is no cakewalk dude...we moved in togeth...Moving in is no cakewalk dude...we moved in together six months ago and finally my epiphany occured last week when i realised i HAD TO DRAW UP A LIST OF CHORES and specify who does what!! A bit school teacherish but after writing it in 2 neat columns and making him SIGN IT OFF (yes, I know, even though we are both 30+) things are starting to fall into place, peace seems to be returning and we dont go around blaming each other for things that don't get done (we just refer to THE LIST and the appropriate guilty party is identified, leaving one of us looks down at our toes sheepishly instead of 2 screaming banshees!). CHildish but effective. But cozy friday evenings of wine and DVD without the fear of a Mother-in-law call at 7am on Saturday Morning reminding you 'beta kal karva chauth hai, faast jaroor rakhna, tample jaroor jaana'SOOOOO make up for living in sin!!risk-a-versehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05457580508082097041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-73429036140888329882009-04-08T14:28:00.000+05:302009-04-08T14:28:00.000+05:30All the best!!! And I really second the live in as...All the best!!! And I really second the live in as a test run thing. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-59438335145918744872009-04-07T21:55:00.000+05:302009-04-07T21:55:00.000+05:30Wow...it sounds very nice and grown up. Could you ...Wow...it sounds very nice and grown up. Could you do a tiny bit about moving out of your parents' place? Do you think I can do that without a) going to a hostel and b)living with an unknown (and most probably irritating) relative? 15 doesn't exactly give a girl lots of options, right? **sigh**Chocoholichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05074573088399847809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-56527864889226733412009-04-07T11:27:00.000+05:302009-04-07T11:27:00.000+05:30wow! that is an amazing post.. way to go girl!!! A...wow! that is an amazing post.. way to go girl!!! And I wud soooo love to read up on ur Live in Relationship Act!Pointblankhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14236961643105447595noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-66544771742437196902009-04-07T09:06:00.000+05:302009-04-07T09:06:00.000+05:30I could not agree more on this one! I've struggle...I could not agree more on this one! I've struggled to explain to people about how live-in relationships can have just as much 'sanctity' in you will as signing a paper and exchanging rings would :)Rupinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13905586546748175477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-24050062626049389892009-04-06T11:37:00.000+05:302009-04-06T11:37:00.000+05:30Been following ure blog for a coupla years now.. h...Been following ure blog for a coupla years now.. has been a helluva ride.<BR/><BR/>P.S. Best of luck with JC!clueless comradeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11336094561085582313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-56349393185717231712009-04-05T02:24:00.000+05:302009-04-05T02:24:00.000+05:30what was sex & dating about this post? huh? si...what was sex & dating about this post? huh? <BR/><BR/>silly girl! got me interested for nothingAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09538668352085164991noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-53411073694536080892009-04-04T12:21:00.000+05:302009-04-04T12:21:00.000+05:30wow, you might want to really, REALLY knock on tha...wow, you might want to really, REALLY knock on that wood there. I've not had any sort of luck with roommates - I have nightmares that it might just be officially impossible to live with me.<BR/><BR/>Just playing the devil's advocate here but - media's also kind of, sort of, maybe, responsible for the fact that you're actually writing this column and acknowledging live-in relationships. <BR/><BR/>.. right? <BR/><BR/>... right???<BR/><BR/>Why do I feel like I shouldn't have said that? lol. <BR/><BR/>Also - I like this blog =).freeflowingsalthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07415755921777303064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-91028688181305578602009-04-01T16:50:00.000+05:302009-04-01T16:50:00.000+05:30CONGRATS...!! This is huge. I wish I could do that...CONGRATS...!! This is huge. I wish I could do that. It is a huge step to be in a live in... my cousin bro in mumbai is in one... and trust me, its a different ball game. I was their guest for a month and it was wow. I had never seen my brother so domestic. Though, one thing that I feel should never done in a relationship is to have rules for it... coz they don't work. I agree that love has become more of a dating game, but that is for the individuals to decide... <BR/>All the best again...!!! Have fun.Sakshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13560563322184558228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-62650479956549810622009-04-01T12:15:00.000+05:302009-04-01T12:15:00.000+05:30thats wonderful news! U have fun lady!thats wonderful news! U have fun lady!Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05026236379492080606noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-45792615736569595572009-04-01T09:30:00.000+05:302009-04-01T09:30:00.000+05:30Congrats... :)i would hazard another guess that pe...Congrats... :)<BR/><BR/>i would hazard another guess that perhaps...people have started to believe that their work is more important than their relationships...<BR/><BR/>that achievement at work is more valuable than achievment of a happy family<BR/><BR/>the concept of "work" as i understand started from the need to gather food for the family in the cave...then it came to making clothes from leaves :P and then barter happened and all the specialization stuff...<BR/><BR/>but in the end...its all about "food for the family"<BR/><BR/>not how big a business deal u got or what car u r driving...or how smart u r...<BR/><BR/>but newhow thats jst me thinking :Psanely insanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18445202328587652200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-61437439187275271362009-04-01T08:36:00.000+05:302009-04-01T08:36:00.000+05:30I have been in a live-in for the past 3 years, and...I have been in a live-in for the past 3 years, and the only thing it does is kill romance. :-) But seriously for us,it is almost like being married since everyone including the parents know and the flip side to it is that they keep visiting us :-/<BR/>but trust me its not that big a deal.i have been in live-in s before and was under no obligation to marry or get serious with them.most often than not it was for convenience that we moved inAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-37419820992182006902009-04-01T03:40:00.000+05:302009-04-01T03:40:00.000+05:30try making your posts shorterthey are a bit too lo...try making your posts shorter<BR/>they are a bit too long<BR/><BR/>:)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com