tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post3213411116288972133..comments2024-03-12T03:51:39.525+05:30Comments on Compulsive Confessions: Maybe I am not one of the lucky few who get a happily ever aftereMhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12716202062654957842noreply@blogger.comBlogger80125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-45511034634652627412010-12-16T02:40:51.646+05:302010-12-16T02:40:51.646+05:30Not sure if it is worth the debate after all this ...Not sure if it is worth the debate after all this time, but the logic in Desi's comment is so dimwittingly flawed."No one will buy the cow if the milk is free" where if I understand right cow=girl and milk=sex. So if that statement holds true, then all cow buyers want the milk. If they could procure the milk in any way (through the cow, in a bottle, diluted with water, whatever) the cow is really dispensable. So essentially you are saying if men could have sex (and presumably babies, although I am extrapolating) without women, they would choose that. The cow comes into the picture because the milk is NOT free, or free milk is scarce. So as women it is better to 'save ourselves' till the wedding night because otherwise the supply would exceed the demand and we would get dumped. Gee. Thanks for the warning, man.<br /><br />The CowgirlAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-48272291515546297362010-08-30T15:52:07.220+05:302010-08-30T15:52:07.220+05:30No one will buy the cow if the milk is free???? Wh...No one will buy the cow if the milk is free???? Who talks like that??? <br /><br />I decided to find out but of course, the profile is not available!<br /><br />How typical! Of people who dont hesitate to cause pain to others just to express their holier than the Pope opinion!!VJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17006449751921032542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-7998887479222612702010-07-11T02:02:23.798+05:302010-07-11T02:02:23.798+05:30Aww. That's bad.
Remember that brilliant write...Aww. That's bad.<br />Remember that brilliant writer wrote, "If winter comes, can spring be far behind?"<br />Here's wishing you a happily ever after. :)Kylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02536165968879359163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-793981959665106852010-06-29T19:58:51.398+05:302010-06-29T19:58:51.398+05:30I read each and every comment..
But was just wond...I read each and every comment.. <br />But was just wondering if it might help to turn to specifics..<br />I mean more towards UK Visa rules.. They are no doubt stringent.. but not something kind of impossible.. <br />I am sure you ppl must have gone thru all the possibilities.. But still I think, You can apply for Tier 1 Visa which is based on points system.. And you earn points for your academics,Work ex etc... And even if you dont get it yourself.. You can go as a dependent attached to JC's visa...<br /><br />So getting a UK visa is difficult but not impossible.. Having said that.. You need to sort out if Visa is really the main issue???<br /><br />Hope life takes the right course for u.. All the Best!!!!!!Hidayathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16444551811739598819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-44908210103114468992010-06-14T19:08:35.262+05:302010-06-14T19:08:35.262+05:30I don’t think it’s too much to ask for me to ask f...I don’t think it’s too much to ask for me to ask for answers...<br /><br />Nope it isn't.<br /><br /><br />Just hang in there. And really hope things get back to the happily ever after mode.<br /><br />Really wish.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-26467141096201491452010-06-13T00:06:10.114+05:302010-06-13T00:06:10.114+05:30happily ever after ... ever after what? we make ou...happily ever after ... ever after what? we make ourselves unhappy by waiting for that perfect future, and as we get nearer things always look less perfect. so enjoy the not-so-perfect days and don't worry. <br /><br />you'll be fine, whatever happens ... things always work out somehow. <br /><br />sending you hugs & courage.Luciehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11093660147044137130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-33899397812827249842010-06-11T16:14:19.027+05:302010-06-11T16:14:19.027+05:30Traveller-- absolutely right. Only Arjun Singh can...Traveller-- absolutely right. Only Arjun Singh can decide what moral codes the rest of the world should live by.Perakathhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15108830079471227958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-37044457614663239072010-06-11T15:58:47.881+05:302010-06-11T15:58:47.881+05:30I'm sorry, but I don't see how this is a c...I'm sorry, but I don't see how this is a cat fight. We're just responding to your views, which we don't happen to agree with.<br /><br />Why does it have to be an either-or situation. You want to have sex, so don't bother with marriage. You want to get married, so stay "pure" till your wedding night?<br /><br />I really do thing we need to move beyond the thought process that sex is something bad or wrong, and women who indulge in such behavior before marriage should be ashamed of themselves in anyway. You meet someone, form a relationship, and that relationship expresses itself in the form of sex - which, in the right circumstances, and between the right people, can be a beautiful expression of love. You then decide that the relationship can be taken to the next level, and choose that to be marriage. WHY does it have to be either the "forward" way or the "archaic" way?<br /><br />Yes, there are people for whom sexual relationships can be something meaningless and fleeting - I may not subscribe to that view, but I wouldn't presume to judge them either. Who am I to decide what moral codes the rest of the world should live by?a travellerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02559346755503817562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-64102254825051103472010-06-11T15:52:04.457+05:302010-06-11T15:52:04.457+05:30@M sarcasm noted. I forgot for a moment that you a...@M sarcasm noted. I forgot for a moment that you are a hip and modern young woman. So of course, its all about you and your libido.<br /><br />So let me ask you a question. If you are so forward thinking, why bother with archaic old fashioned marriage at all? I mean why not just have a permanent live-in relationship?<br /><br />Don't bother answering that. What I had hoped would be a genuine exchange of ideas and viewpoints has turned into a cat fight. Nothing useful to be gleaned. Time to move on to something more interesting.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18004299305280944415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-42936377060147667652010-06-10T16:54:00.541+05:302010-06-10T16:54:00.541+05:30All this talk of sex, @desi I am not going to cont...All this talk of sex, @desi I am not going to contradict myself anymore, will go and not save myself instead. <br /><br />@eM lolAarthi https://www.blogger.com/profile/00664055729238167801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-67775847037087205972010-06-10T16:50:10.822+05:302010-06-10T16:50:10.822+05:30Of course, because women NEVER EVER want to have s...Of course, because women NEVER EVER want to have sex BEFORE marriage. A woman with a libido? What new fangled monster is this? *gasp*eMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12716202062654957842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-47688084029128013222010-06-10T16:43:14.938+05:302010-06-10T16:43:14.938+05:30@Aarthi. You are contradicting yourself. If everyt...@Aarthi. You are contradicting yourself. If everything is not about sex, then why the hurry? Why not wait until after you are married?<br /><br />You can argue this until you are blue in the face, but the bottomline is love and sex are not the same thing. A man who loves you will be willing to wait until after marriage.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18004299305280944415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-81436298900824036142010-06-10T16:05:53.252+05:302010-06-10T16:05:53.252+05:30@Desi EVERYTHING is not about sex. But sorry, when...@Desi EVERYTHING is not about sex. But sorry, when you save yourself for too long, you begin to see it everywhere.Aarthi https://www.blogger.com/profile/00664055729238167801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-58140052315512468872010-06-10T15:56:24.243+05:302010-06-10T15:56:24.243+05:30What you call using sex as currency and as a tool,...What you call using sex as currency and as a tool, I call "saving yourself till marriage". When a man truly loves a woman, he will be willing to wait until marriage, for her sake.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18004299305280944415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-76463162128171740872010-06-10T14:56:25.403+05:302010-06-10T14:56:25.403+05:30ugh. was going to close comments after that last b...ugh. was going to close comments after that last bit of vitriol, but really, just have to say. desi, I feel sorry for you, if you equate sex with bargaining. as in, if i don't sleep with you, you'll marry me. sex is not a tool. sex is not currency. it is (if done right) a way of expressing deep feeling between two people who care about each other. that's all.eMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12716202062654957842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-32139670886433080622010-06-10T14:04:48.812+05:302010-06-10T14:04:48.812+05:30@Aarthi, traveller and any future commenters
I kn...@Aarthi, traveller and any future commenters<br /><br />I know its fashionable to be politically correct, but a spade's still a spade. The real sympathy I have is for people like you that are too scared to say what they really think.<br /><br />Iam not insulting or humiliating Meenakshi in any way, but no matter what country you are in, men are still men. <br /><br />And I stand by what I said. "No one will buy the cow if the milk is free"Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18004299305280944415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-51485104291105925022010-06-10T14:04:32.482+05:302010-06-10T14:04:32.482+05:30@Aarthi, traveller and any future commenters
I kn...@Aarthi, traveller and any future commenters<br /><br />I know its fashionable to be politically correct, but a spade's still a spade. The real sympathy I have is for people like you that are too scared to say what they really think.<br /><br />Iam not insulting or humiliating Meenakshi in any way, but no matter what country you are in, men are still men. <br /><br />And I stand by what I said. "No one will buy the cow if the milk is free"Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18004299305280944415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-17480584578109790742010-06-09T15:34:44.155+05:302010-06-09T15:34:44.155+05:30@Aarthi: Completely agree with you.
It's rid...@Aarthi: Completely agree with you. <br /><br />It's ridiculously sad how these kind of opinions continue to show up.a travellerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02559346755503817562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-82927087579209433932010-06-09T15:32:02.880+05:302010-06-09T15:32:02.880+05:30@Desi I feel sorry for people like you and how sma...@Desi I feel sorry for people like you and how small-minded you are and that you will lead the rest of your lives in your myopic worlds, because you're too closed to see the world in its entirety. <br /><br />These people didn't hook up for a night. They were engaged!And this is a real person you're writing to on a public forum! Show some sense of responsibility.Aarthi https://www.blogger.com/profile/00664055729238167801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-5609112804699508312010-06-09T15:25:11.185+05:302010-06-09T15:25:11.185+05:30Sorry things didn't work out. I read all the c...Sorry things didn't work out. I read all the comments on your blog and while I appreciate the sympathy behind them, no one is really telling you what you need to know. Which is, "No one will buy the cow if the milk is free". Sorry if that sounds harsh, but its true. Next time (and there will be a next time) a little more restraint and self control might help.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18004299305280944415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-49020688049363925552010-06-09T10:33:11.832+05:302010-06-09T10:33:11.832+05:30Oh you poor thing! Well it's Jc's loss.Oh you poor thing! Well it's Jc's loss.Rose /Magpiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02704916553862847687noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-24883457357984661492010-06-05T15:30:34.338+05:302010-06-05T15:30:34.338+05:30I love that song and you seem like just another co...I love that song and you seem like just another confused girl in a planet of confused-somethings who are totally allowed to post such posts in their blogs.<br />- Great Writer In The Sky<br /><br />P.S:Check out Phantom of the Opera by Nightwish.I think you will like it!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-69899680878272217892010-06-05T11:48:33.564+05:302010-06-05T11:48:33.564+05:30hey there. been reading ur blog for ages but never...hey there. been reading ur blog for ages but never bothered commenting. u stay strong, girl. im sure things will turn out fine for you.Azra Raphaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14502011104151390253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-63790499947097095502010-06-04T23:17:56.341+05:302010-06-04T23:17:56.341+05:30bwahaha...no man is 'spooked by wedding plans&...bwahaha...no man is 'spooked by wedding plans'. It just means he has 'fallen out of love' with you and definitely doesnt want to spend a lifetime with you after seeing you blend (or not) in his home. <br /><br />Its just a polite way of saying...ummm...have had enough doing you...now go back home and let me do other women pls.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17275188446419490132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7382033.post-4107801926345118202010-06-04T22:33:37.650+05:302010-06-04T22:33:37.650+05:30Its hard but u have to make believe that it's ...Its hard but u have to make believe that it's all gonna be for the best!!!<br /><br />tc!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com